If I treated, you the way you treated me

 If I treated you the way you treated me, i'm sure you would hate me. this statement is a powerful reflection of the way we treat others and the impact it can have on our relationships.

it's a reminder that our actions have consequences and that the way we treat others can either build them up or tear them down. it's a call to self-reflection, to examine our own behavior and consider how it may be affecting those around us.
when we treat others poorly, we often forget that they are human beings with feelings, emotions, and experiences. we forget that they have their own struggles, challenges, and pain. and we forget that our words and actions have the power to hurt or heal.
but this statement also suggests that we have the power to choose how we treat others. we can choose to be kind, compassionate, and understanding. we can choose to listen, to empathize, and to support. and we can choose to treat others with the same love, respect, and dignity that we would want for ourselves.
so, let's make a conscious effort to treat others with kindness, compassion, and respect. let's strive to be more empathetic, more understanding, and more gentle in our interactions with others. and let's remember that our words and actions have the power to shape the world around us, and to create a more loving, compassionate, and just society for all.
remember, the way we treat others is a reflection of our own character and values. so, let's choose to treat others with love, kindness, and respect. let's choose to be the change we want to see in the world. and let's choose to create a world that is more just, more compassionate, and more loving for all.

Before you do me wrong, make sure you never need me again

 Before you do me wrong, make sure you never need me again. those are words i wish i had spoken sooner, words that would have saved me from the heartache and pain that you brought into my life.

but now, I'm speaking to them to you, loud and clear. before you decide to hurt me, to betray me, or to walk away, make sure you're prepared to never have me by your side again.
because once you cross that line, once you do me wrong, there's no going back. i won't be there to pick up the pieces, to wipe away your tears, or to forgive you for your mistakes.
i deserve better than to be treated like a doormat, like a person who can be used and discarded at your whim. i deserve respect, kindness, and compassion. and if you can't give me those things, then maybe it's time for us to part ways.
so, before you do me wrong, make sure you never need me again. make sure you're prepared to lose me, to lose my love, my support, and my friendship. because once you've lost me, you'll realize too late that i was the best thing that ever happened to you. 

I don't trust nobody, people talk good and still move different.

 I don't trust nobody, people talk good and still move different. it's like they say, "actions speak louder than words." people can talk a good game, but if their actions don't match up, then it's hard to take them seriously.

I've been around the block a few times, and I've seen my fair share of people who talk the talk but don't walk the walk. they'll promise you the world, but when it comes down to it, they're nowhere to be found. they'll smile in your face, all the while stabbing you in the back.
it's hard to know who to trust, especially when everyone seems to be wearing a mask. they'll put on a good show, pretending to be something they're not, just to get what they want from you. but once they've got it, they'll drop the act and show you their true colors.
i've learned to be cautious, to keep my guard up and my walls intact. i don't let people in easily, and i don't trust them with my deepest secrets. i've been burned before, and i won't let it happen again.
so, i'll keep my distance, and i'll watch from afar. i'll observe and i'll listen, but i won't be fooled. i won't be swayed by empty words and fake smiles. i'll stay true to myself, and i'll always prioritize my own well-being.
i'll take my time getting to know someone, and i'll make sure they earn my trust. i won't give it away easily, and i won't let anyone take it from me. i'll be careful, i'll be cautious, and i'll be wise.
because in the end, it's not about who you can trust, it's about who you can't. and i'd rather be safe than sorry. 

Hardest pill I swallowed was realizing i meant nothing to people that meant a lot to me.

 Hardest pill I swallowed was realizing i meant nothing to people that meant a lot to me.

it's a bitter taste that lingers long after the initial shock has worn off. it's the realization that the people you loved, the ones you thought were your rock, your safe haven, didn't feel the same way about you. it's like being punched in the gut, repeatedly, until you can't breathe anymore.
i remember the feeling of numbness that washed over me, like a cold wave crashing against the shore. it was as if my whole world had been turned upside down, and i was left stumbling around in the dark, trying to find my footing. every step i took felt like a betrayal, every breath i made felt like a lie.
but the hardest part wasn't the realization itself; it was the aftermath. it was the trying to pick up the pieces of my shattered heart, the trying to make sense of the chaos that had erupted in my life. it was the feeling of being lost and alone, like a small boat adrift in a stormy sea.
and yet, as i look back on that experience, i realize that it was a necessary one. it was a wake-up call, a reminder that i deserved better. it was a chance for me to re-evaluate my relationships, to prioritize my own needs and desires. it was a chance for me to discover my own strength, my own resilience.
so, if you're going through something similar, if you're struggling to come to terms with the fact that someone you loved didn't love you back, just know that you're not alone. know that it's okay to feel the pain, to feel the anger and the sadness. but also know that you are strong enough to get through this, to come out the other side, scarred but wiser.

The biggest mistake I've ever made

 The biggest mistake I've ever made is letting people stay in my life far longer than they deserve..." this poignant and relatable statement highlights the importance of setting healthy boundaries and prioritizing our own emotional well-being.

it's easy to get caught up in relationships that are toxic, draining, or unfulfilling, and to hold on to them for far longer than we should. we may feel a sense of loyalty or obligation, or we may be afraid of being alone or starting over. but the truth is that staying in a relationship that's no longer serving us can be incredibly damaging to our mental and emotional health.
by letting people stay in our lives for too long, we may be enabling their bad behavior, sacrificing our own happiness and well-being, and preventing ourselves from moving on and finding more positive and fulfilling relationships.
it takes a lot of courage and self-awareness to recognize when it's time to let go of a relationship that's no longer serving us. but it's often the best decision we can make for ourselves. by setting healthy boundaries and prioritizing our own needs and well-being, we can create space for more positive and fulfilling relationships to enter our lives.
remember, you deserve to be treated with love, kindness, and respect. don't settle for anything less, and don't be afraid to prioritize your own needs and well-being.

You don't need a new sunrise to start over

 You don't need a new sunrise to start over, you only need a new mindset and a positive attitude. this statement is a powerful reminder that we have the power to start anew and create positive change in our lives at any moment.

often, we get caught up in the idea that we need to wait for a new day, a new week, or a new year to make a fresh start. but the truth is, every moment is an opportunity to start anew and create positive change in our lives.
it all begins with our mindset and attitude. when we approach life with a positive and growth-oriented mindset, we open ourselves up to new possibilities and opportunities. we become more resilient, more adaptable, and more confident in our ability to handle whatever challenges come our way.
having a positive attitude is not about ignoring the challenges and difficulties of life, but about approaching them with a sense of hope, optimism, and determination. it's about believing in ourselves and our ability to create positive change in our lives.
so, don't wait for a new sunrise to start over. instead, take a deep breath, adjust your mindset, and approach life with a positive attitude. remember, every moment is a new opportunity to start anew and create the life you desire.
as the famous quote by william james goes, "the greatest discovery of any generation is that a human can alter his life by altering his attitude." so, let's make the decision to alter our attitude and approach life with a positive and growth-oriented mindset. we got this!

it's a problem when you love the wrong person too long!!

 Ain't nothing wrong with loving the right person too fast.... it's a problem when you love the wrong person too long!!

this statement is a powerful reminder that it's not the speed at which we fall in love that's the problem, but rather the quality of the person we're investing our emotions in. loving someone too fast can be a beautiful and exhilarating experience, especially if that person is kind, supportive, and loving in return.
on the other hand, loving the wrong person for too long can be a painful and draining experience. it can lead to emotional exhaustion, heartache, and even long-term damage to our mental and emotional well-being. when we invest too much time and emotional energy into someone who doesn't deserve it, we can lose sight of our own worth and value and forget that we deserve to be loved and respected in return.
so, don't be afraid to follow your heart and fall in love with someone who makes you happy. but also, be wise and discerning, and don't be afraid to walk away if you realize that you're investing too much of yourself into someone who doesn't deserve it.
remember, you deserve to be loved and respected, and you shouldn't settle for anything less. keep your heart open to the possibility of love but also keep your eyes open to the reality of the situation, and don't be afraid to make tough decisions when necessary.
and always remember, loving yourself is the most important love of all. take care of yourself, prioritize your own emotional well-being, and don't be afraid to seek out help and support when you need it. 

Never trust sweet words, because nowadays people have sugar on their lips

 Never trust sweet words, because nowadays people have sugar on their lips and poison in their heart, and this is a truly profound and cautionary insight, as it highlights the dangers of taking people at face value, and the importance of looking beyond their words and actions to discern their true intentions and character.

in a world where people are increasingly adept at presenting a false exterior, and where manipulation and deception are commonplace, it's more important than ever to be cautious and discerning when it comes to trusting others, and to remember that sweet words and charming smiles can often be used to hide ulterior motives and malicious intentions.
so don't be fooled by the sugar on their lips, and don't let their sweet words lull you into a false sense of security, because it's the poison in their heart that you really need to worry about, and it's only by being vigilant and discerning that you can protect yourself from the harm that they may cause.
remember that trust must be earned, and that it's not something that should be given lightly or without careful consideration, and always prioritize your own safety and well-being, and don't be afraid to walk away from anyone who doesn't deserve your trust. 

If they can leave you so easily, they were never really meant for you

If they can leave you so easily, they were never really meant for you.
let them go, and don't look back, as you deserve so much better than someone who is willing to leave you so easily, and who is not willing to fight for your love and relationship.
this is a truly profound and liberating insight, as it allows you to finally see that their departure was not a reflection of your worth, value, or lovability, but rather a reflection of their own inability to truly love and commit to you.
it's essential to remember that you deserve to be with someone who loves and values you for who you are, and who is willing to work through the challenges and difficulties of life with you, and not someone who is willing to abandon you at the first sign of trouble.
or who is unable to provide you with the love, support, and validation that you need and deserve, and it's also important to recognize that their behavior is not a reflection of your worth, value, or lovability, but rather a reflection of their own limitations, flaws, and insecurities.
so let them go, and don't look back, as you deserve so much better than someone who is willing to leave you so easily, and who is not willing to fight for your love and relationship, and remember that you are strong, resilient, and capable of surviving and thriving without them.
and that you will emerge from this experience even stronger, wiser, and more compassionate than before, and that you will learn to love and appreciate yourself even more, and to recognize your own worth, value, and lovability.
and to know that you deserve to be treated with love, respect, and kindness, and that you will attract someone into your life who will love and appreciate you for who you are, and who will be willing to work through the challenges and difficulties of life with you.
and who will provide you with the love, support, and validation that you need and deserve, and that you will live a life that is filled with purpose, meaning, and fulfillment, and that reflects your deepest values, aspirations, and desires.
and that you will always remember that you are worthy of love, respect, and happiness, and that you deserve to live a life that is truly yours, and that brings you joy, fulfillment, and a deep sense of satisfaction and contentment. 

 

Nobody goes through more crap in life than a person with a good heart,

 

Nobody goes through more crap in life than a person with a good heart, because they're often the ones who care the most, and feel the most deeply, and are the most empathetic, and compassionate, and they're often the ones who are the most vulnerable to hurt, and pain, and betrayal.
People with good hearts are often the targets of manipulation, and exploitation, and abuse, because they're seen as weak, or vulnerable, or easy to take advantage of, and they're often taken for granted, and used, and discarded by those who don't appreciate their kindness, and generosity.
But despite all the crap they go through, people with good hearts are often the ones who continue to love, and care, and give, and forgive, and they're often the ones who make the biggest difference in the lives of those around them, and they're often the ones who bring the most joy, and light, and love into the world.
So, to all the people with good hearts out there, don't give up, and don't lose faith, and don't let the crap you go through harden your heart, or make you cynical, or bitter, because you are the ones who make the world a better, and brighter, and more loving place, and you are the ones who deserve to be loved, and appreciated, and cherished for all that you do

I didn't change, I just started treating people the way they treat me

 I didn't change, I just started treating people the way they treat me, and that's a powerful statement, because it's about setting boundaries, and being honest with yourself, and others, about what you will, and won't tolerate, and it's about recognizing that you deserve to be treated with respect, and kindness, and compassion, and empathy.

It's about realizing that you don't have to accept abusive, or toxic, or manipulative behavior from others, and that you have the right to stand up for yourself, and to assert your needs, and your feelings, and your desires.
It's about understanding that you can't control how others behave, but you can control how you respond to them, and how you allow them to treat you, and it's about choosing to surround yourself with people who uplift, and support you, and who treat you with love, and respect, and kindness.
I didn't change, I just started treating people the way they treat me, is a statement of empowerment, and self-love, and self-respect, and it's a reminder that you deserve to be treated well, and that you should never settle for anything less.
It's a statement that says, I'm worth it, and I deserve to be treated with love, and respect, and kindness, and I won't accept anything less, and that's a powerful, and liberating message, that can change your life, and your relationships, and your sense of self-worth, forever. 

Never trust sweet words, because nowadays people have sugar on their lips

 

Never trust sweet words, because nowadays people have sugar on their lips and poison in their heart, and this is a truly profound and cautionary insight, as it highlights the dangers of taking people at face value, and the importance of looking beyond their words and actions to discern their true intentions and character.
in a world where people are increasingly adept at presenting a false exterior, and where manipulation and deception are commonplace, it's more important than ever to be cautious and discerning when it comes to trusting others, and to remember that sweet words and charming smiles can often be used to hide ulterior motives and malicious intentions.
so don't be fooled by the sugar on their lips, and don't let their sweet words lull you into a false sense of security, because it's the poison in their heart that you really need to worry about, and it's only by being vigilant and discerning that you can protect yourself from the harm that they may cause.
remember that trust must be earned, and that it's not something that should be given lightly or without careful consideration, and always prioritize your own safety and well-being, and don't be afraid to walk away from anyone who doesn't deserve your trust. 

Give people as much as they give you

 

give people as much as they give you, don't waste your 100% for their 10%, because when you give someone your all, and they only give you a fraction of that in return, it's a clear indication that they're not invested in the relationship.
don't waste your time, energy, and emotions on people who don't value or appreciate you, because you deserve so much better than that, and by giving people only as much as they give you, you're teaching them the value of reciprocity.
when someone is only willing to give you 10% of their effort, attention, and affection, it's not worth giving them 100% of yours, because that's not a fair or balanced relationship, and it's only going to lead to feelings of frustration, resentment, and burnout.
remember that you can't pour from an empty cup, and that you need to prioritize your own needs, and take care of yourself, before you can even think about giving to others, and by doing so, you'll be able to maintain healthy boundaries, and ensure that you're only investing in relationships that are truly worth your time, and energy.

No matter how good you are to people, it won't make them good to you

 

I think it is important to realize that no matter how good you are to people, it won't make them good to you. You can be kind, compassionate, and generous, but that doesn't guarantee that others will treat you the same way. Some people may take advantage of your goodness or exploit your kindness for their own gain.
It's essential to understand that you can't control how others behave, but you can control how you respond to them. You can choose to set boundaries, prioritize your own needs, and surround yourself with people who appreciate and respect you. Remember that your worth and value come from within, and don't depend on how others treat you.
It's also important to recognize that being good to others doesn't mean you have to sacrifice your own well-being. You can be kind and compassionate without being taken advantage of. You can set healthy boundaries and prioritize your own needs without being selfish.
Ultimately, it's crucial to focus on building relationships with people who appreciate and value you for who you are. Surround yourself with people who uplift and support you, and don't waste your time on those who don't treat you with the respect and kindness you deserve.

If it is destroying you, then it is not love

 

If it is destroying you, then it is not love, my dear, a profound truth whispered by the universe, resonating deeply within your soul, where the fragile threads of hope and heartache entwine.

For love is not a flame that consumes and ravages, leaving scars and ashes in its wake, but a gentle warmth that nourishes and uplifts, illuminating the darkness and guiding you home.

Any bond that systematically dismantles your sense of self, shatters your confidence, and leaves you gasping for air is not love, but a toxic allure, masquerading as devotion.

True love is a sanctuary of peace, a haven of acceptance, where your authentic self is cherished, honored, and celebrated, its beauty and worth reflected in the eyes of the beloved.

Remember, dear heart, you deserve a love that rebuilds, restores, and revives; a love that whispers "you are enough" in the silence of your darkest nights, and shines light upon your path, illuminating the beauty of your soul.

Do not confuse the intensity of obsession with the warmth of devotion, nor mistake the grip of possession for the gentle clasp of commitment, for true love sets free, it doesn't ensnare.

You are worthy of a love that lifts you higher, that fills your life with laughter, joy, and unrelenting hope, a love that heals the fractures of your heart and awakens your spirit to soar. 

Those who have been shattered by the cruelty and heartlessness of others

 

Those who have been shattered by the cruelty and heartlessness of others, yet still manage to be compassionate towards others, are truly remarkable individuals. Despite having been broken and bruised, they continue to radiate warmth and kindness, refusing to let the darkness they've endured define them. Instead, they choose to empathize with others, to listen, to understand, and to offer solace. Their capacity for love and compassion is boundless, and they deserve to be loved more deeply than the oceans, more profoundly than the depths of the sea. For they are the beacons of hope, the embodiment of resilience, and the epitome of selfless love.

~Dr Malik Arshad Awan

I am not the same person anymore.

 

I am not the same person anymore. Over the years, I have learned to forgive myself for trying to fix things I didn't break. I'm outgrowing the spaces I once filled. I am learning to release myself from all the versions of me I created just to survive. I am not going to be that version of me that is happy with the bare minimum. Maybe, I will never be able to trust anyone without doubting them at first, maybe the next time someone tries to hold my heart, I will hesitate to let them in and I think that is okay. I think it's okay for me to be careful before letting people in. I no longer crave to be seen, because I know that true growth often happens in the shadows, away from the spotlight. No one will know the chaos it took to be this calm, the scars it took to be this healed. The scars I carry are reminders of battles I fought and the lessons I learned. Here I am, learning to understand myself without having the need to be understood by anyone else. I am putting my broken pieces one by one so gracefully that I cannot help but be grateful for everyone I met until I met myself. Here I am, finally learning to over exaggerate my place in other people's lives.

Here 1 am, learning to stay true to myself.

There are two types of pain. one that hurts you and one that changes you.

 

"There are two types of pain. one that hurts you and one that changes you." this profound and thought-provoking statement highlights the complex and multifaceted nature of pain.
pain is an inevitable part of life, and it can take many forms. there's the physical pain of injury or illness, the emotional pain of heartbreak or loss, and the psychological pain of trauma or stress. but regardless of its form, pain can be a transformative and growth-promoting experience.
the first type of pain, the kind that hurts you, is often the most immediate and intense. it's the pain of a broken bone, a broken heart, or a broken dream. this type of pain can be overwhelming and debilitating, making it hard to think, feel, or function.
but the second type of pain, the kind that changes you, is often more subtle and insidious. it's the pain that comes from confronting our deepest fears, insecurities, and limitations. it's the pain of growth, transformation, and self-discovery. this type of pain can be uncomfortable and challenging, but it's also incredibly liberating and empowering.
as the famous quote by carl jung goes, "one does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious." this type of pain, the kind that changes you, is often the result of confronting and integrating our own shadow selves, our own darker impulses and desires.
so, don't be afraid of pain, don't try to avoid it or numb it. instead, face it head-on, and let it transform you. let it change you, let it grow you, and let it make you stronger, wiser, and more compassionate.
remember, you are not alone in your pain, and you are not defined by it. you are strong, capable, and resilient, and you have the power to choose how you respond to pain. so, choose to face it, choose to feel it, and choose to let it transform you into the best version of yourself. 

This whole year changed me, people ain't real and the love ain't either

 

This whole year changed me, people ain't real and the love ain't either." this poignant and thought-provoking statement resonates deeply, doesn't it? it's a reflection of the pain, disillusionment, and heartache that can come from experiencing the harsh realities of life.
when we're young and idealistic, we often believe that people are inherently good, that love is pure and true, and that the world is a just and fair place. but as we grow older and wiser, we begin to realize that this isn't always the case. people can be cruel, love can be fleeting, and the world can be a cold and unforgiving place.
this realization can be incredibly painful, especially when we've invested our hearts and souls into relationships, friendships, and communities that ultimately let us down. it's like waking up from a dream, only to find that the reality is far more harsh and unforgiving than we ever could have imagined.
but here's the thing: even in the midst of pain and disillusionment, there is always hope. there is always the possibility for growth, for transformation, and for renewal. we can choose to let our experiences break us, or we can use them as an opportunity to learn, to heal, and to become stronger, wiser, and more compassionate versions of ourselves.
as the famous quote by friedrich nietzsche goes, "what doesn't kill me makes me stronger." so, let's take the lessons we've learned from our experiences, and let's use them to build a stronger, more resilient, and more compassionate version of ourselves. let's rise above the pain, the heartache, and the disillusionment, and let's emerge stronger, wiser, and more radiant than ever before.
remember, you are not alone in your struggles, and you are not defined by the pain and heartache you've experienced. you are strong, capable, and resilient, and you have the power to choose how you respond to the challenges and difficulties that come your way. so, let's choose to rise above, to heal, to grow, and to become the best version of ourselves.
it's okay to feel hurt, it's okay to feel angry, and it's okay to feel sad. but don't let those feelings consume you. instead, use them as fuel to drive you forward, to motivate you to keep pushing, and to remind you of your own strength, resilience, and determination.
you are a warrior, a fighter, and a survivor. you have been through battles, you have faced challenges, and you have overcome obstacles. and you know what? you're still standing. you're still here, still fighting, and still pushing forward. so, don't give up, don't lose faith, and don't lose hope. keep moving forward, even when it's hard, even when it's scary, and even when it feels like everything is against you.
because the truth is, you are stronger than you think, you are braver than you feel, and you are more resilient than you know. you've made it through every difficult moment in your life so far, and you can keep doing it. just remember to be kind to yourself, to take care of yourself, and to keep pushing forward, no matter what.

When you give someone your trust, you give them the power to destroy you

 

When you give someone your trust, you give them the power to destroy you too, and this is a truly profound and sobering insight, as it highlights the delicate and vulnerable nature of trust, and the immense power that it can give to others over our lives and well-being.

trusting someone can be a beautiful and empowering experience, as it allows us to form deep and meaningful connections with others, and to build strong and lasting relationships that can bring joy, love, and fulfillment into our lives.

but it's also important to recognize that trust can be a double-edged sword, as it can also give others the power to hurt and betray us, and to destroy the very foundations of our sense of self and well-being.

so it's essential to be mindful and discerning when it comes to giving our trust to others, and to make sure that we're not putting ourselves in a position where we can be easily hurt or exploited.

and if someone does betray our trust, it's crucial to remember that their behavior is not a reflection of our own worth or value, but rather a reflection of their own flaws and shortcomings.

and that we deserve to be treated with love, respect, and kindness, and that we have the right to live a life that is free from emotional pain, distress, and suffering. 

Some people will put you last but call you first when they need something or around people.

 

Some people will put you last but call you first when they need something or around people.

These people may appear to be friendly and supportive on the surface, but beneath this façade lies a self-serving agenda that prioritizes their own interests above all else. They may consistently disregard the feelings, needs, and boundaries of others, only to reach out when they require something, often with a sense of entitlement and expectation.

This behavior can be incredibly draining and toxic, leaving the person on the receiving end feeling used, unvalued, and unappreciated. It's essential to recognize the signs of this behavior and to establish clear boundaries to protect oneself from being taken advantage of.

It's also important to remember that you deserve to be treated with respect, kindness, and compassion, and that it's okay to prioritize your own needs and desires. Surrounding yourself with people who genuinely care about and support you can help to counteract the negative effects of those who would seek to take advantage of you.

Ultimately, recognizing and addressing this behavior is crucial for maintaining healthy relationships and protecting one's own emotional and mental well-being. By being aware of the signs and establishing clear boundaries, you can ensure that you're treated with the respect and kindness you deserve.

It's also important to remember that you can't control how others behave, but you can control how you respond to them. By prioritizing your own needs and desires, and surrounding yourself with positive and supportive people, you can create a more fulfilling and meaningful life.

In addition, it's essential to practice self-care and self-compassion when dealing with people who may be taking advantage of you. This can include taking time for yourself, engaging in activities that bring you joy, and seeking support from trusted friends, family, or a therapist.

By taking care of yourself and prioritizing your own needs, you can reduce the negative impact of those who may be taking advantage of you, and create a more positive and fulfilling life. Remember, you deserve to be treated with respect, kindness, and compassion, and it's okay to prioritize your own needs and desires.

Furthermore, it's essential to recognize that people who consistently put you last and only reach out when they need something may be struggling with their own issues, such as insecurity, low self-esteem, or a lack of empathy. While this doesn't excuse their behavior, it can help you to understand their motivations and to approach the situation with compassion and empathy.

However, it's also important to remember that you can't fix others or change their behavior. Your primary focus should be on taking care of yourself and prioritizing your own needs and desires. By doing so, you can create a more positive and fulfilling life, surrounded by people who genuinely care about and support you.

In conclusion, the statement "Some people will put you last, but call you first when they need something" serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of prioritizing our own needs and desires, and of surrounding ourselves with people who genuinely care about and support us. By recognizing the signs of toxic behavior and establishing clear boundaries, we can protect ourselves from being taken advantage of and create a more positive and fulfilling life. 

Broken promises are the reason why people are scared to trust again

 

Broken promises are the reason why people are scared to trust again, because when someone breaks a promise, it can be incredibly hurtful and damaging, and it can make us question our own judgment and our ability to trust others, and it can make us feel vulnerable and exposed, and like we're not worthy of being treated with respect and honesty, and it can be especially difficult when the broken promise comes from someone we love and trust, like a partner, family member, or close friend, because it can make us feel like we're not important or valued, and like our feelings and needs don't matter.

Broken promises can also make us feel like we're walking on eggshells, never knowing when the next promise will be broken, and never knowing if we can really trust the person who made the promise, and it can make us feel anxious and uncertain, and like we're constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop, and it can be exhausting and draining, and can make us feel like we're losing ourselves in the process, and like we're sacrificing our own happiness and well-being in order to try to make the relationship work.

But it's also important to remember that broken promises don't define our worth as individuals, and they don't mean that we're not deserving of love and respect, and it's okay to acknowledge the hurt and pain that we've experienced, and to take the time to heal and process our emotions, and it's also okay to set boundaries and to prioritize our own needs and feelings, and to seek out relationships that are healthy and positive, and that make us feel valued and respected.

I don't trust words. I trust vibes

 

I don't trust words. I trust vibes. People can tell you anything, but a vibe tells you everything, revealing the truth beneath the surface, exposing intentions, and uncovering the authenticity of one's character, emotions, and actions, serving as a powerful navigational tool through life's complex web of relationships and interactions.

Words can be manipulative, deceptive, superficial, and ephemeral, crafted to conceal, deceive, or manipulate, whereas vibes transcend language, speaking directly to the soul, conveying emotions, and exposing true intentions with unerring accuracy.

Trust your intuition, listening to your inner voice, paying attention to gut feelings, observing body language, and sensing energetic shifts, allowing your emotions to guide you toward genuine connections and away from toxic influences.

Vibes never lie, revealing compatibility, exposing hidden agendas, confirming genuine connections, and warning of potential harm, serving as a steadfast guardian of your emotional well-being.

Embracing the power of vibes requires cultivating self-awareness, honoring your emotional intelligence, surrounding yourself with positive energy, and trusting the subtle whispers of your intuition.

In a world where words can deceive, vibes remain the ultimate truth-teller, illuminating the path to profound understanding, meaningful relationships, and a deeper connection with yourself and others.

Sitting alone and enjoying your own company is better than being surrounded by fake people

 

Sitting alone and enjoying your own company is better than being surrounded by fake people, whose masked smiles and hollow laughter conceal their true intentions, draining your energy and polluting your spirit with toxic pretenses.

Embracing solitude allows you to:

Breathe authenticity

Cultivate self-awareness

Nourish your soul

In quiet moments, you discover:

Strength in stillness

Peace in reflection

Clarity in silence

The comfort of your own presence surpasses the discomfort of forced connections, where shallow conversations and insincere gestures leave you feeling empty and misunderstood.

Value the beauty of solitude, for in its quiet embrace, you'll find:

True connection with yourself

Freedom from pretentious expectations

Renewed vitality

Cherish your alone time; it's where:

Self-love blossoms

Introspection deepens

Inner peace unfolds.

Solitude is not loneliness; it's empowerment.