This is The Man Who Deserves Your Love

Love the man who makes you laugh. Love the man who gives you his time instead of sugarcoating his absence with material gifts love the man who brags about you to others when you’re not around.

Love the man who knows the difference between fucking and making love and does both when the timing is right. Love the man who makes it safe to lay on his chest while he strokes your hair when you’ve had a bad day.

Love the man who can stand in the background and watch you in the spotlight, with a smile without it, threatening his masculinity.

Love the man who thinks you are your sexiest when you’re in the bathroom with messy hair or brushing your teeth while wearing his T-shirt. Love the man who wants you to fulfil your dreams and stand by your side as you do so. This is the man who deserves your love .

Concrete Angel 

 

Just Tired

She’s just tired. When a strong woman finally gives up it’s not because she’s weak or because she no longer loves her man. To put it in the simplest term she’s just tired she’s tired of the games she’s tired of the sleepless nights. She’s tired of feeling like she’s all alone and the only one trying. She’s just tired.

Some might say that woman is weak for giving up on a relationship but I disagree. When you’ve done all you can and you’ve reached that point where you feel physically emotionally and spiritually drain you’re only option left is to leave. Not because you want to because you have to for your own sanity and peace of mind.

Concrete Angel

 

How Frustrating

 

I'm Moving on With My Life

You must make a decision that you are going to move on. It won’t happen automatically you will have to rise up and say, I don’t care how hard this is, I don’t care how disappointed I am, I am not going to let this get the best of me. I’m moving on with my life.

Concrete Angel

 

Choice

Choice is the most powerful tool we have. Everything boils down to choice we exist in a field of infinite possibilities. Every choice we make shut and infinite numbers of doors and also opens an infinite number of doors to. So, at any point, we can change the direction of our lives by a simple choice. It’s all in our hands, our hearts and in our minds.

Concrete Angel

 

What I Have Learned from Life

What I’ve learned from life is that for every inch of sadness lies a foot of happiness ahead. I’ve learned that the simplest of times brings the grace of pleasures and the hardest goodbyes which can often lead to the best hellos. I’ve learned that crazy chances guide us to unexpected discoveries, and that tough times unveil the sincerity of people. I’ve learned that you have to hold onto your smile every day and free yourself of that frown.

I’ve learned that we can get through the hardest times in life but also realize It just takes time and love to heal.

Concrete Angel 

 

It's Going to be OK

Sometimes the door closes not because we fail, but because something bigger than us says this no longer fits our life. So, lock the door, shed your tears, and when you’re ready, turn around and look for the new door that’s opened. It’s a sign that you’re no longer that person you were, it’s time to change into who you are.

It’s going to be OK you got this

Concrete Angel

 

Don't Be Afraid to Get Back Up

 

You Will Come Across People in Your Life

You will come across many people in your life. They will all have a purpose to fulfill. Some will teach you a lesson and someone will leave your soul wounded. Someone will love you for their selfish motives and some will love you unconditionally. Some will cheat on you, lie to you and stab you in the back.

Learn from the lesson's life teaches you and don’t waste your time on people who are there in your life for their own convenience and who never take you seriously. Don’t allow people to use you for their selfish reasons. Just be strong and don’t let anything break you or leave you shattered.

Choose the people whom you want in your life and notice the red flag and the signs that your body gives you when you’re around them.

Concrete Angel 

 

Loving You Hurt Alot

Loving you hurt a lot, but there was a time when it was the most beautiful feeling I ever known, so I hold onto that and let the painful part go.

That’s how I save myself, by choosing to remember the good instead of dwelling on the bad. Because loving you hurt a lot, but it didn’t compare to the pain that came from losing myself.

I wrote this for me as a reminder that I can choose what to carry and what to put down. I had a memorial for all that was heavy and I laid it to rest and told myself you’re not mine to carry then threw flowers across the top and went to celebrate myself from that day on .

I wrote this for me because loving you hurt a lot and choosing myself is the only way to save myself. I died 100 times in your arms, and you hurt me in so many ways so today I lay everything down that hurts and I choose me.

Concrete Angel

 

If They Can't Understand

If they can understand why I’m hurt, they’ll stop doing it

But they won’t. They wouldn’t have done it in the first place if they were a decent human being.

Concrete Angel

 

Lets Be Honest

 

Rule Number 1

 

Stop Begging People to Stay

Stop begging them to be what you wish they were which they could never be. Accept the pain of watching them leave. It hurts This is certain, but it will hurt less than pleading for the heart of someone who doesn’t want you or loves you and keeps abusing you.

Relinquish control of the situation of their actions and your need to try to make them love you and make it work.

Stop and try to step in before they get the chance to hurt you. Or Let them hurt you so you can see who they are. You will heal with time and grace and self trust you will heal. You can get over a person but it is so much more painful to try to get over the realization that the one you love is only with you because you begged them to be.

Concrete Angel

 

Butterflys are not Born with Wings

 

I Promise You

 

Starting the Journey

 

Stop Choosing Sides Without Knowing

 

You Got Your Closure

 

Live Your Life with Purpose

Focus on your blessings, not your misfortune. Focus on your strengths, not your weaknesses. Be yourself and don’t wait for the approval of others but most importantly have a positive and humble mindset no matter what situation you are in count your blessings not your problems and you will realize how beautiful your life truly is.

Concrete Angel

(20+) CONCRETE ANGEL SHE IS ME- Learning to Heal | Facebook