Translation: When speaking about my ex I am keeping tabs on,
I’ll pretend to be happy for them. This will convince you that I just want the
best for them, even shortly after using my new betrayal target, to make my ex
jealous and boasting about it. I will also make sure my ex-partner doesn’t become too fulfilled in their lives. When you become an ex, I’ll
make sure you are traumatized and make sure I show you who has power, and I will make
sure you pay by not having anything and on the street fighting for your life. Even
though you left due to abuse in the relationship and betrayal. Cause I was the
one who held the power of our finances and control over our relationship. After
all, I wouldn’t ever want anyone to truly move on. They need to pay for leaving
me.
People who call them out,
hold them accountable, honor their own anger, and are not easily gaslighted.
People who have the willingness and
ability to hold narcissists and psychopaths accountable and call them out
consistently never last long in relationships with them. This is a good
thing! The narcissist seeks to devalue and discard victims who
continually enforce healthy boundaries and honor their own sense of anger and outrage
in response to the violations they endured. Narcissists and psychopaths
also fear those who may expose them and give them a taste of their own medicine
or could possibly present them with consequences for their behavior. Instead,
they look for victims who are invested in forgiveness and will turn the other
cheek to tolerate abuse – they fear victims who may try to get “revenge” or get
back at the narcissist in intelligent, constructive ways. If you drop hints
that you’re not willing to let bygones be bygones and casually mention stories
that suggest that you regularly hold people responsible for their actions, or
even mirror the narcissist’s behavior in any way, a narcissist may be less
likely to continue interacting with you. Remember: narcissists
want to be with the person who sings kumbaya, shows them coddling compassion,
and speaks healing prayers for them over a candlelit service – not the person
who happily sent their ex to jail.
If you are in a relationship with a
narcissist or a psychopath, you’re not alone and help is out there. You deserve
support. You may want to process your traumas with a validating mental health
professional on your journey to healing and freedom.
Concrete Angel
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