WHAT DID YOU REALLY LOSE???

So, you're crying over the person you thought was the love of your life, right?

Which is completely normal because you’re hurting from everything that just happened or you’re going through the emotions of the break-up still.

 Let me tell you and also going to ask you something which I learned along the way!

WHAT DID YOU REALLY LOSE???

In case you forgot let me remind you.

You lost someone who made you empty promises.

You lost someone who invalidated your feelings.

You lost someone who betrayed you with others. 

You lost someone who made you feel alone in your own relationship and home.

You lost someone who couldn’t take accountability.

You lost someone who gaslighted and manipulated you.

You lost someone that used his strength to hurt you physically and mentally.

You lost someone that made you feel like you were nothing and worthless.

You lost someone who treated you as an option.  

You lost someone who would never change for you or anyone.

You lost someone who really didn't love you but themself.

You lost someone who destroyed your dreams and goals.

Our problem was we overlooked the red flags they gave us and fixated on the qualities that make a relationship good. We often forget why things didn’t work out in the first place or the real reason we had to leave.

So, they did us a favor by showing us who they really are and to others. What you need to know is they took us for granted and if you really think about it

THEY LOST YOU