When you leave a relationship with a narcissist and the fog starts to clear you realize they were much worse than you thought. You can clearly see all the ways they mistreated and disrespected you.
When you are with them you’re in a trance and in survival mode. You may even be trauma bonded so it’s very difficult to see everything they did to you. Also, you don’t think people you care about would actually do these things or treat you this way.
Many times you get angry with yourself Because you did not see and you can’t believe just how despicable they really were.
Please don’t feel stupid, emotionally abuse is intended to make you feel this way. It’s manipulative and insidious it’s very hard to see it happening when you are in the middle of it all.
Maria Consiglio
Concrete Angel
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