It will cost you later.

 Imagine meeting someone who is interesting to talk to, so much so that you are enthralled with their conversation. The more they talk, the more you’re drawn in and they seem like they have it all together. They’re very easy to talk to because they’re very charming and charismatic. But after a while of talking with them, you get this gut feeling that something isn’t right with this person but you just can’t put your finger on it. That gut instinct that’s telling you that something is wrong is there for a reason so don’t ignore it!! That gut instinct that tells you something is wrong is generally on point & it’s a response to red flags that are present. Ignoring red flags now can cost you later.

Red flags are meant to warn you that there is imminent danger ahead if you continue to proceed. We have all seen a red flag somewhere, such as in a yard indicating that there are underground lines, wires, or cables in this area, and you should not dig unless you contact someone for assistance or guidance. All red flags indicate that you should proceed with caution and be on the lookout. Red flags can occur in the workplace, personal friendships, or romantic relationships and these are sometimes ignored. We have all ignored red flags, the ones that we couldn’t quite put our fingers on, but we proceeded anyway and eventually got hurt. I am guilty of this as much or more so than the next person, and let me tell you, it’s not something I will ever ignore again.

You are not alone

Concrete Angel

Reference: RUN GIRL RUN