Relationships with Narcissists are so difficult to come to terms with

Relationships with Narcissists are so difficult to come to terms with.  There is no closure or real understanding.  They blame you for everything.  Most people don't understand these relationships.  So, you don't even get the support you deserve.  It can be a very lonely recovery.  You don't always get the validation you would get with other break ups.  You still have remnants of the trauma bonding and fears of the future.  And the narcissists is probably bad mouthing you to anyone who will listen.  I just want to acknowledge all the survivors.  I see you I too feel this way and I am so proud of you for taking a stand.